‘Rowdy’ Ronda Rousey is one tough S.O.B, we all know that, but her new book reveals just how tough the reigning UFC champion really is.
In Rousey’s new book ‘My Fight / Your Fight’, she reveals her demanding and painful youth that moulded her into one of the most feared mixed martial arts fighters in history.
The New York Times shared some excerpts from the book, which covers subjects including Ronda’s father’s death, the tough love of her mother, drug addiction and her speech problems as a child after complications during birth.
Rousey was born in Riverside County, Calif., with her umbilical cord wrapped around her neck. She was blue. Doctors revived her, but those crucial moments without oxygen led to developmental delays. She didn’t begin talking until she was 4 years old.
“At about 6, I began speaking coherently in sentences,” Rousey says. “They told me I had brain damage from the hypoxia. But when you’re a kid, your brain figures out a way to reorganize.”
‘The way I got here wasn’t perfect, it was messy, and there was a lot of shit along the way.’- Ronda Rousey
Her beloved dad and namesake, Ron, encouraged her. “You’re a smart kid,” he’d say. “It’s not like you’re some f*ckin’ moron.”
Ron took her shopping for her first doll — a Hulk Hogan Wrestling Buddy, which she slept with every night. He took her hiking in the woods. At the end of each day, they’d sit together and watch the animal documentary series “Wild Discovery.”
Rousey discusses the tragic death of her father in the book, a subject she very rarely speaks about:
When Rousey was 8, her father killed himself, committing suicide by asphyxia. He had suffered chronic, acute back pain since a freak accident a few years before, but no one saw it coming.
“None of us were the same after that,” Rousey says. Her father’s death was the most formative event of her life, and she almost never talks about it.
“I never wanted to be in the situation where I’ve told the story so many times that I become detached from it and don’t cry,” Rousey says.
Naturally, the book delves into Rousey’s discovery of judo and the tough training regimen of her mum:
That same year, Rousey had another transformational moment. Rooting around the house, she came across a scrapbook. Inside were photos of her mom, who had her own secret: She had been a judo champion.
“It was an unbelievable discovery as a kid,” Rousey says. “All this time, I’d been looking at my dad as big, strong, invincible, and my mom as the nurturer. I had no idea that my mom could kick my dad’s ass.”
Rousey’s mother, AnnMaria De Mars, is a sixth-degree black belt and in 1984 became the first American to win the world judo championships.
Inspired, Rousey took up judo, and her mom became her first coach.
‘All this time, I’d been looking at my dad as big, strong, invincible, and my mom as the nurturer. I had no idea that my mom could kick my dad’s ass.’ – Rousey
“I hurt my toe,” I said. “I think it’s broken.”
“It’s a toe,” she said dismissively.
“But it hurts,” I said, crying. “Do you have a pillow for me?”
“What the f*ck do you mean a pillow?” she asked. “Go run laps.”
I hobbled away, more hopping than running.
“I said ‘run laps,’ not ‘hop laps,’ ” my mom said. “Run.”
Rousey would go on to tear her ACL, break her right hand, break her nose, dislocate an elbow, get bitten by a dog four days before a fight and throw up during another, pushing through it all.
At 16, she dropped out of school, left her family and moved to Boston to train to compete in judo at the 2004 Olympics. She was thriving and unravelling, and began binging and purging to make weight.
Rousey even divulges that when she left home at 18, times got even tougher and she spiralled into addiction:
Her mother refused to let her live at home without a job. So, at 18, she went to live with a trainer who stole what little money she had. She found an older boyfriend who lived in his parents’ basement, cheated on her constantly, and told her that, physically, she was “about a six.”
Rousey began smoking and drinking heavily, often beginning her day with a cigarette and a vodka espresso. She developed a pot-and-Vicodin habit. She’d sleep in her car, and when she did find an apartment, all she could afford was a 12-by-12-foot studio.
“On more than one occasion,” she writes, “sewage would come up out of the toilet and shower, and I’d come home from work to an apartment filled with shit. I didn’t think I could get any lower.”
So it turns out that Rousey has quite the life story. It all worked out in the end though; she’s now one of the UFC’s biggest stars and Hollywood has already come knocking for the femme fatale.
‘My Fight / Your Fight’ is available in the U.S today and on May 14 for UK fans.
With revelations like this, we can’t wait to check it out!