Everything You Need To Know About Making Girls Squirt

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Squirting: it’s the great sex mystery of our generation.

Just about every guy out there claims they’ve made a girl do it, while there are plenty of women who reckon it’s happened to them and others who are just utterly baffled by the whole concept.

First thing’s first, it’s definitely a thing. A very NSFW Google search will confirm that beyond any reasonable doubt, but the problem is nobody is entirely sure what it exactly is.

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So, to help clear things up the guys at Thrillist spoke to sex therapist Madeleine Castellanos.

According to Dr. Castellanos what we need to realise from the get go is that squirting and female ejaculation are simply not the same thing.

She said:

Most people, when they talk about ejaculation, their frame of reference is men. If you take that same model and apply it to women, it doesn’t translate. Because it looks more like what we in our mind conceptualize as ejaculation because of what happens to a guy, most people think squirting is the same thing.

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However, Dr. Castellanos explains that ejaculation is actually a small amount of fluid secreted from the urethral glands at time of climax, while squirting is something that can occur through orgasm or not at all.

It also doesn’t come out of the vagina, though many feel like it does. This is down to the nerve endings which are similar in the urethra and the opening of the vagina.

Oh, and of course the porn industry doesn’t exactly help as their actresses sometimes fill their vaginas with water and squirt it out to simulate the action.

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So, how can you make it happen? Well according to Dr. Castellanos the angle between the urethra and the bladder is like a ‘kinked hoof’ when the bladder gets full.

When you want to release the liquid, you naturally squeeze the muscles and it contracts like a balloon and this simultaneously opens the hoof.

So if you push on the G-spot when she is aroused- meaning the urethra is full of blood and the bladder is also full it feels really good because it pushes up against the erectile tissue.

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Dr. Castellanos says women can even teach themselves how to do it.

She said:

[You have to learn] how to relax a certain set of pelvic floor muscles while pushing up on that area in the G-spot, and opening up that angle, and then allowing yourself to relax enough to out with the bladder at the same time. Eventually you will just sort of learn those steps, and your brain will record it as muscle memory — and then you associate that with tremendous amounts of arousal. And voila, you’ve learned how to do it.

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So there you have it, you really do learn something new every day.


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Thrillist

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