Sex Workers Reveal What The ‘Girlfriend Experience’ Actually Entails

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On April 10, a controversial but highly acclaimed new series is set to hit our screens focusing on the life of a high class sex worker.

The Girlfriend Experience is a series produced by Steven Soderbergh, the mastermind behind such films as Oceans 11, Erin Brokovich, and Che.

But what exactly is a girlfriend experience, or a ‘GFE’ for short?

We’re certain that the show will introduce its title term to audiences everywhere, but here’s everything you need to know beforehand.

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Paying a sex worker for a particular sexual act is not a GFE. When paying for a girlfriend experience you’re paying for more than just the sex, or the fetish.

You’re essentially paying for the formation of a mutual relationship where you can get to know a sex worker and spend quality time together, talking and listening to one another, while still having casual sex.

However, the question of what a GFE is, can probably only truly be answered by the sex workers who perform GFE’s as part of their daily job.

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The folks over at Sheri’s Ranch, a brothel in Las Vegas, set out to explain the exact ins and outs of a GFE on their blog.

In the article, they put the question to their own girls, with most of them claiming that there can be no set definition for a GFE as they all vary massively.

Brittney Ryder, a sex worker at the brothel, said:

It’s THE experience, and with me it’s rarely a one time meeting. It’s about getting to know one another, understanding one another and caring for one another over many sessions. It’s taking the first encounter and building off each and every meeting.

Take all the good times of a relationship and add the exceptional sexual pleasures and what you get is this ultimate experience of a lifetime.

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Another sex worker at Sheri’s Ranch, Terra, added: 

With the girlfriend experience you get to experience the care and adoration of a lover. Except its all about the positive side. No moody days, no stress on where you stand with one another – Just pure enjoyment.  With the girlfriend experience we have time to just relax and let things happen as they happen.

However, we think Allissa put it best when she said: 

Collecting money and having sex is a transaction. Listening and connecting is an experience. Blurring the line between the two and  turning the transaction into an experience is my description of The Girlfriend Experience. Personally I prefer being able to fulfil the role as your girlfriend rather than offering straight sex, getting the chance to know you and sharing more of myself.

So there you have it. Keep your eyes peeled for The Girlfriend Experience on Starz this Sunday.


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