Surprise Reason Women Call Men ‘Daddy’ During Sex

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If you’ve ever wondered if women who call men ‘daddy’ while in the throes of passion are actually fantasising about doing the dirty with their father, the answer you’ve been waiting for is finally here.

But contrary to what you might believe, it’s not due to ‘daddy issues’ or familial relations at all. Women (and probably men for that matter) aren’t dreaming of doing their parents, instead, screaming out ‘daddy’ underpins a yearning for ‘dominance’.

The somewhat relieving revelation comes from Broadly, who spoke to sex therapist Vanessa Marin about the suggestive pet name that usually renders this reaction:

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Marin said:

I’ve heard from a fair amount of men who were turned off by it, and were worried that it was an indicator of ‘daddy issues. Yes, ‘daddy’ can mean ‘father,’ but we also use the word to indicate when someone is the boss, in charge, a protector, or doing a good job.

That’s usually the meaning women are going for in the bedroom. It’s a bit of a 70s porn cliche. I’ve never run across a woman who called her partner ‘daddy’ because she genuinely liked fantasizing that he was her father.

While that’s a pretty acceptable and rather soothing explanation, there’s more.

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According to Broadly, there‚Äôs more than one reason why women call their partners ‘daddy’ or ‘Daddy’ (the capitalisation is important in sub/dom relationships).

For some people, ‘daddy’ is a gentler way of saying ‘sir’ while still ‘submitting to male authority figures.’ That means that these women – and presumably men – are probably not into actual incest but the idea of masculine paternal figures who are also down for some fun.

As one Reddit post said:

Some girls want to call their man daddy in a way that has nothing to do with their father but as a way that communicates she is submissive to your masculinity.

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The most extreme version of this mindset is the DDlg (Daddy Dom/little girl) kink community. With this, men take care of their ‘littles’ – women who, despite being grown adults in every other capacity, prefer to imagine themselves as younger in their sex-lives.

I’d still prefer to use any other pet name but this one…


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