When one thinks of an escort, whether male or female, the first thing that probably springs to mind is sex.
Even the definition of an escort is somebody who is paid for their time, usually for sex.
However is it the sex that keeps people coming back for more? Well according to this Aussie escort, it certainly is not, reports The Sun.
In Australia more women than ever are paying for escorts and Sexy Spencer (definitely his legal name) thinks he knows why.
— The Sun (@TheSun) September 10, 2016
The self-proclaimed cross over love child of Christian Grey and James Bond said:
I’ve come to the conclusion that I don’t get booked for sex. Certainly, sex is a part of what I do, but I run the gamut of emotional support, emotional pleasure and physical pleasure.
For these women I’m predominantly there to listen. I don’t judge, I don’t seek to cure them or pity them.
As a male escort, you don’t just get paid to bang lots of women as some might think. There is much more to the job than that.
And he’s not to be laughed at (besides his name, laugh at his name…) as this guy is reeling in the clients at a price of £330 pound an hour.
Sexy Spencer is getting so many clients he actually refuses to see the ladies more than eight times in case they form too much of a close connection where feelings are strong.
Speaking about a usual session, Spencer said:
I always build a connection with small talk and chit chat. Connection is important, but it doesn’t need to be deep.
They don’t like to know too much about me. I lay out my bag of toys and goodies, making it a fun experience so they aren’t nervous but let them know they are only there if they wish.
Sometimes, if I get the right signal from a client, I’ll openly ask if anything interests them but I don’t often use things like the crop or restraints.
Women are usually after a close intimate experience without toys. When they know I’m trained with this stuff they feel more comfortable about handing over control to me.
I often remind clients that, this is still their time so what they want is what goes. Women aren’t used to asking for what they want so need coaxing sometimes.
So there you have it folks – more attention with a side order of companionship. Pretty simple really…