Here’s How To Guarantee Both People Orgasm During Sex

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There’s a gender pay gap, a gender housework gap, and, the one everyone forgets…a massive fucking orgasm gap.

Most women can’t actually orgasm from intercourse anyway, and then the ones who do barely get the chance because most men just rush to the end at their own pace (that makes it sound like a choice).

Women take an average of 13 minutes longer than men to reach orgasm.

That’s a big gap, and climax controlling penis spray company Promescent has done some research into it.

Wendy Strgar, loveologist and founder of the lubricant company Good Clean Love, said:

The orgasm gap is built into our different male and female physiology.

Slowing down the time, giving ourselves more time to be curious and explore pleasure, helps both genders.

Taking the focus away [to] rush toward intercourse eases the anxiety about sexual performance. Penetration should always follow [a] clitoral orgasm because the female blossom[s] with this kind of pleasure.

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The key then is slowing everything right down.

Foreplay is often rushed, with the focus being on the end goal instead of the build up.

Stgar said:

Doubling your [foreplay] time will change not only the climax, but the relationship itself.

Devote those extra minutes to [a] sensuous massage.

Take note of how it feels to just rub the temples, the inner thighs, the sacrum. Sexual pleasure spots exist all over the body; and each one heightens genital response.

Heres How To Guarantee Both People Orgasm During Sex PELVIC webYou also have to use your brain and calm your mind to make the most of the moment.

Strgar said you have to “redirect your mindset about sex from performance (or achievement) to sensing and expanding pleasure in all its forms.”

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Pay attention to all the other senses

People often forget that you can enhance sex by appealing to all your other sense.

The romantic candles aren’t just a romantic gimmick, the smells and candlelight can actually improve your sex.

Music and different flavour lubricants can hugely add to the experience as well to bring the experience to all of your senses.

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Last but definitely not least is the actual sex…. s l o w   i t   d o w n

Strgar said:

Slow down penetration by using different types of strokes, making patterns that both partners are following [both shallow and deep].

Space the deep ones as far apart as you can, for as long as you can.

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If the girl is orgasming more, the whole relationship is going to be happier.

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