Apparently you don’t have to bother actually having sex with a guy to find out if he’s any good in bed.
According to a top ‘sexpert’, there’s actually plenty of signals that potential partners can look out for to reveal whether a guy is going to rock their world or leave them feeling unfulfilled.
In an exclusive interview with the Daily Star, dating expert Katy Horwood revealed that, as being a good lover is a combination of loads of factors, there are plenty that you can detect just from talking to someone.
Basically, Katy reckons there are seven major giveaways of whether a guy is going to be a red hot lover or a stone cold disappointment. Take note gentlemen…
He’s a good listener.
Apparently, a guy who gets distracted mid conversation is likely to do the same in the bedroom.
This doesn’t necessarily mean he’ll fall asleep midway through but a decent attention span is always a bonus.
He stares into your eyes.
According to Katy this one is all about concentration, focus and making your partner feel like ‘the most important thing in his life’ both in and out of the bedroom.
Which definitely isn’t selfish at all…
He fancies you.
Because having sex with someone who isn’t actually attracted to you is just going to be plain awkward.
Katy says guys who lead active lives are more likely to have better stamina and to be a giver, rather than the type who just lies back and lets their partner do all the work.
A guy’s calmer side is a good indication that he’s also patient and chilled out when things move to the bedroom – both bonuses when it comes to making that sweet, sweet love.
He can dance.
Yep, apparently the age old adage is true – a big part of being good at sex is being able to recognise and pick up on rhythms.
So if a guy has some serious moves on the dance floor, chances are he can rock it between the sheets too.
He tries new food.
Bear with us on this – basically, if a guy is willing to try new stuff – for example exotic foods – it’s safe to assume he’s open minded in bed, which has got to be more fun than missionary.
So there you have it, for my next date I’ll be doing a skydive while eating some insects before hitting a club to show off some moves while staring directly into her eyes. It can’t fail.