People Who Remained Virgins Before Marriage Reveal All About Their First Time

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In a society that’s becoming more sexualised and a bit more open about what they do between the sheets than the previous generation, it’s easy to forget that loads of people still choose to wait to have sex until they get married. 

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From high-profile athletes to musicians, people are still choosing abstinence, whether it’s for religious reasons, or simply because that’s what they’ve been told is right by their parents.

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Now, several men and women who decided to lose their virginity on their wedding night have revealed all in an AskReddit thread to what it’s really like to wait and what their first time was actually like.

It’s probably no surprise that a lot of couples struggled with the awkwardness of their first time, but they vary from utterly cringe-worthy, to confusion and to even the beginnings of long and happy marriages.

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User Slinky999 explained how she didn’t just have a terrible time on the first night, but how things never really improved in the long run…

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Derigiberble revealed that because of poor sex ed during there time at school, it completely ruined their sex lives and had a not-so happy ending…

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Another spoke of how a religious upbringing and lack of sexual activity before marriage meant that the whole experience was painful.

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It wasn’t all bad though. This user spoke of how they had sex several times within 24 hours of them getting married (well, who can blame them) and it was incredible, apparently.

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Some users urged those who were having trouble at the beginning of their marriage to keep at it, as after a few months of discovering what your partner likes, it does get a hell of a lot better…

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Others spoke about the understandable awkwardness and not quite knowing what they were doing, but despite that they would happily do it that way all over again…

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Whatever your stance is on abstinence, it’s an interesting insight into what couples go through if they choose to not have sex before marriage.


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