Model Olly Eley Becomes ELLE UK’s First Non-Binary Cover Star
Model Olly Eley has just become the first non-binary person to feature on the cover of Elle UK.
Having been perceived as a ‘tomboy’ as a child growing up in rural Australia, Eley, who was assigned female at birth, knew that this label didn’t quite fit, having never felt female or male.
Writing in a piece for ELLE UK. Eley revealed they had ‘at last found a way of existing in the world that made sense’ after many years of ‘despising’ their body.
If there was a thin line that connected the two genders, I would be a dot floating somewhere between the two, but untethered to the line altogether.
It’s the only way I can describe it. Articulating this feeling of existing in a hinterland outside of the binary is one of the greatest gifts the past few years has given me.
When their body began to change during puberty, Eley felt ‘completely unanchored’ to their body and to ‘their sense of self’, and felt a constant ‘simmering rage’ coursing through them.
At the time, Eley did not know why exactly they felt such anger and frustration, and would take their feelings out on family members. They experienced bullying at school for ‘being different’, and didn’t feel as though they fitted in anywhere.
I felt like an alien, like I was in the wrong place, in the wrong body. I was operating at a completely different frequency to everyone else around me.
Eley initially believed that they were just gay, but after getting a girlfriend at the age of 16, they realised that ‘being called a lesbian couple made [her] cringe’, and that there was more to it than that.
Everything changed when Eley moved to Sydney, having never before had ‘the language or the role models’ that allowed them to finally understand their own feelings.
My mind opened and was flooded with light – there was this whole queer community that I had no idea existed. When someone first introduced themselves to me with their name and the pronouns ‘they/them’, it felt so safe to me. Woah, that’s the answer to everything right now, I thought.
Read the full ELLE UK piece for yourself here.
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