No, David Beckham Kissing His Daughter Isn’t ‘Creepy’ Or ‘Weird’


In a society where men are still described as ‘babysitting’ their own kids when mum’s away, it’s perhaps unsurprising reactionary types would balk at the sight of a proud dad showing affection to his daughter.

However, the reaction to a simple peck on the lips between David Beckham and his daughter Harper has been blown out of any reasonable proportion; sullying the most innocent of gestures.

TV presenters and Twitter commentators alike have waded in to create debates out of thin air; defining without invitation the parameters of decency and decorum which surround kissing your own child. Can it be directly on the lips? Can they be over the age of five years old? And so on and so forth it went.

The big question appeared to be among certain curtain twitchers, should he have kissed his own daughter at all? With the implication, of course, that he absolutely shouldn’t have done.

Slipped between comments which praised David’s parenting skills and bond with his daughter were comments of a more sinister nature; which brought unnecessary shadows to the sweet moment.

What was notable however was the number of parents who rushed to David’s defence, sharing their own joy at showing their little ones affection and expressing shock at the prism through which the picture was being viewed.

Many even shared pictures of their own, which showed them proudly kissing their own babies and children on the mouth.

As one father put it:

I kiss my boy each and every day and thank god this gift of life was given to me. It’s called a father’s love.

Another said:

What a lovely picture. My girls when they where little would place both hands on my face and kiss me.

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Of course, the problem really lay with the sort of people – and the sort of world – which sexualises even the slightest of mouth-to-mouth kisses; projecting layers of innuendo where there aren’t any.

Harper Beckham is only seven years old and her mouth and her kisses should not be viewed under any circumstances as being romantic or sexualised. It isn’t fair or healthy to bring connotations to this kiss beyond what a seven-year-old child would be able to understand.

Why then has it become fair game to scrutinise this picture for anything ‘creepy’ or untoward? And what is it about lip-to-lip contact between a parent and a young child which causes such discomfort? These are the real questions we should be asking ourselves.

There are as many different types of kisses as there are ways to greet a friend or begin a conversation. You can kiss a pet between the ears, a grandparent on the cheek.

There are of course passionate kisses between lovers, but such acts are far removed from kissing your child, with no comparison made whatsoever.

This sort of overblown reaction is particularly damaging for the confidence of fathers, who might all too often already feel ill at ease with expressing affection for their children.

Mothers are expected to cuddle and mollycoddle their children, while fathers are all still taught to keep their distance; to provide for their family and remain stoic.

David Beckham has long been one of the world’s most public examples of a hands-on parent; eager to spend quality time with his children and unafraid to show his love for them.

Of course, it would be easy to relegate the sneers and disgust aimed at the Beckhams to particularly gruesome internet trolls on the very fringes of society.

However, David’s Instagram pic quickly made it to mainstream media sources, ‘debated’ over with open repulsion and mockery on Good Morning Britain.

Piers Morgan – who has previously described Daniel Craig as ’emasculated’ for carrying his baby daughter in a papoose – ridiculed the kiss as being ‘creepy’ and ‘weird’, even accusing David of deliberately trying to cause outrage.

How are fathers in the world supposed to feel when such simple gestures of affection are treated with such suspicion and disdain on such a public platform?

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