Trans Activist Daphne Dorman Dies By Suicide Aged 44
Comedian and trans activist Daphne Dorman has died by suicide at the age of 44 after writing a ‘goodbye’ post on social media.
Daphne apologised to her friends, family, and followers in the note, which was posted to her Facebook account in the early hours of Friday morning (October 11).
Following the tragic news, the Office of Transgender Initiatives in San Francisco confirmed the comedian’s death on their Twitter account, offering counselling for anyone seeking help.
Daphne’s sister, Becky Kugler, also confirmed her death and shared a tribute online that read, as per the Independent: ‘Sweet, sweet Daphne. I so wish we could all have helped you through your darkness. We’ll always love you, fly high sweet angel.’
The comedian accompanied her farewell post with a couple of pictures: one of her next to a message which read, ‘So long and thanks for all the fish,’ and one with her daughter, Naia. Overlapping the images were the dates 30 April 1975 – 11 October 2019.
Her post read:
I’m sorry. I’ve thought about this a lot before this morning. How do you say ‘goodbye’ and ‘I’m sorry’ and ‘I love you’ to all the beautiful souls you know? For the last time. There’s no good way. That’s what I got out of all that thought.
To those of you who are mad at me: please forgive me. To those of you who wonder if you failed me: you didn’t. To those of you feel like I failed you: I did and I’m sorry and I hope you’ll remember me in better times and better light.
I love you all. I’m sorry. Please help my daughter, Naia, understand that none of this is her fault. Please remind her that I loved her with every fiber of my being. Daphne
After building her career in the entertainment industry, Dorman was mentioned in Dave Chapelle’s divisive Netflix comedy special, Sticks and Stones, which aired in August.
Daphne, whose Twitter bio read, ‘Yep, I’m the Daphne that Dave Chappelle is talking about in Sticks and Stones,’ reportedly thanked the comedian for ‘normalising transgenders’ after Chappelle recorded a ‘hidden extra’ epilogue that addressed the criticism he had received for the special.
After his show created a backlash that the comedian was ‘anti-trans’, Chappelle recalled a story which mentioned Daphne attending his shows and ‘laughing the hardest’ at his jokes.
The budding comedian, who was working on a career in showbiz before she died, was an accomplished software engineer before she embarked on her successful comedy career.
Our thoughts are with Daphne’s loved ones at this difficult time. Rest in peace, Daphne.
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