Woman Films ‘Shortest Date In History’ With ‘Marginalised’ Straight Man

by : Cameron Frew on : 10 Aug 2021 18:09
Woman Films 'Shortest Date In History' With 'Marginalised' Straight Man@javeeeeeeeeee/TikTok

A woman managed to record the ‘shortest date in history’ with a man who felt marginalised for being straight.

TikTok user @javeeeeeeeeee recently shared a clip of an ill-fated date with an unnamed guy. Almost immediately, he made a huge blunder by complaining about how ‘marginalised’ he feels.


It’s textbook ‘incel’ behaviour, i.e. the sentiments of an ‘involuntary celibate’ male who wants a romantic partner but can’t seem to get one, often blaming women and feeling like they deserve sex, or even just attention. More often than not, they’re white, heterosexual and arrogant.

@javeeeeeeeeeeMen can’t live with them can live without them good thing I didn’t waste time getting ready lolz ##men ##fyp ##foryoupage ##parati ##foryou ##pourtoi ##joke♬ Leave Get Out x JoJo x DB99 – Samoan Prince 🇼🇸

In the short video, ‘Javs’ can be seen recording herself while out in a restaurant, or perhaps a coffee shop. ‘As a straight male, I often feel marginalised,’ her date tells her, causing her to contemplate her choices. ‘I’m going home,’ she then tells him.


It also echoes the comments of some right-wing people who feel threatened by the promotion and positivity around the LGBTQ+ community, feeling like white, heterosexual men are somehow being ‘silenced’ despite other identities and sexualities still fighting for representation.

The video has been viewed more than 3.8 million times, with a follow-up clip with improved audio also amassing more than 2.5 million views. ‘Men can’t live with them can live without them good thing I didn’t waste time getting ready lolz,’ she wrote in the caption.

@javeeeeeeeeeeReply to @hotchisadilf Im so sorry audio is finally up properly this time lol 🥰🥰🥰 ##audio ##audiooriginal ##fyp ##foryoupage ##foryou ##parati ##pourtoi♬ original sound – javs


‘One quick thing I’m allowed to leave even if he said nothing at all that’s the beauty of choice… getting mad at me for leaving is [a red flag],’ she added. It should be noted that one of the hashtags attached to the video is #joke, so there’s the possibility it’s been staged – however, that’s still unclear.

‘Proud of you for leaving right away, so many people stay because they feel obligated to,’ one user wrote. ‘Y’all r like ‘u proved his point’ do u understand that one singular person not sticking around to listen to ur opinion is not marginalisation,’ another commented. ‘This man learned a new word and ran with it,’ a third wrote.

Yes, there are some men in the comments who think this is rude or shows they are ‘marginalised’ – obviously, they’re wrong. ‘Men in the comments not understanding what an instant red flag this is lol,’ one wrote. ‘That wasn’t a red flag that was a whole state of emergency,’ another commented. ‘That’s the most embarrassing thing I have ever heard,’ a third wrote.

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Cameron Frew

Entertainment Editor at UNILAD. 2001: A Space Odyssey is the best film ever made, and Warrior is better than Rocky. That's all you need to know.

Topics: Viral, Dating, TikTok


  1. @javeeeeeeeeee/TikTok

    Men can’t live with them can live without them good thing I didn’t waste time getting ready lolz #men #fyp #foryoupage #parati #foryou #pourtoi #joke